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3 ways smart women rebound after relationship ends

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An hour, a week, a year? Rebound relationships leave a bad taste in the mouth.

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After all, who gets into a new relationship before the ink on their separation agreement or divorce decree is even dry? The truth is, many people do.

Some people quickly enter a new romantic relationship because they want to distract themselves from the pain of their divorce or remain in the same type of living arrangement they had before their divorce.

Others do so because their Ex is already in another relationship. They believe that if their Ex is already moving on, then they should, too. Some people enter a rebound relationship because of the excitement. A rebound is a way to explore their newfound independence or to experience what it is to be sexual again after years of feeling unlovable. Sometimes there are people who are already in another relationship while married, divorcing, or moving out.

These relationships may last, or they may be a function of distraction, excitement, and taboo. And when the marriage is officially no more, those feelings may dissipate; with the reality of everyday and its mundane responsibilities making the relationship seem suddenly boring. But if not, and the relationship lasts, a whole new set of challenges are presented for the one who left the marriage without hitting pause to reflect on what really went wrong.

Then there are those who enter into rebound relationships to heal and move on with their lives.

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So, you can see that not all rebound relationships are the same. Some truly are healing.

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If not, then at least one of you will be very hurt when it ends. One of the great things about being in a relationship is the ability to learn more about yourself.

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Do you want to be treated with kindness and respect? Then treat yourself that way in addition to treating them that way. Maybe you chose this partner because he seems degrees opposite to your EX. Whatever baggage you discover, your awareness of it and appropriately dealing with it is part of 3 ways smart women rebound after relationship ends healing journey.

Most rebound relationships, including the healing ones, are relatively short-lived. The good thing about the healing ones, though, is that each one is a stepping-stone that carries you closer to a good and lasting relationship with yourself and perhaps, if you want, a relationship with someone else too.

Just what makes a good relationship—one that can last? When you mutually agree to and practice the following. Your mate can be your greatest teacher.


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