You may think you've learned a thing or two about what the opposite sex enjoys in the bedroom. But have you ever stopped to think about what they don't like? According to Femail's sex and relationships expert Tracey Cox, there's a whole host of things women do during sex that men can't stand - and vice versa. Read on to find out if you're guilty of committing a sexual faux pas at a crucial moment Sex expert Tracey Cox has revealed ten things women do in bed that men hate file photo.
Men quite rightly assume there's a long long list of what they do wrong in bed with women, mainly because our sexual systems are more complicated than his.
His orgasm might well be more automatic and guaranteed, but that doesn't mean he doesn't find certain sexual behaviours a complete turn off. Indeed, men hate it when women are too noisy when they're in earshot of others, scratch his back and are too self conscious about your body. Here are ten things that consistently top his hate list…. Suggesting you watch porn together Most men watch porn on a reasonably regular basis — and most women know it.
Lots of women think, OK, I'm going to embrace this rather than get all funny about it, and suggest you watch it together. Most men keep their eyes glued to the screen and it's highly likely he'll do the same even if you're there with him.
If you're going to try it, don't take it as an insult if he gets super turned on doing it with you and don't take it personally if his attention remains fixed elsewhere. It's habit, not a personal rejection.
No-nos in the bedroom include women being noisy in bed when other people can hear file photo. Being too noisy when others can hear. A bit of moaning and groaning is fantastic but screaming and thrashing about like he's trying to suffocate you with a pillow is more than a little scary for men.
Over-exaggerated moans and groans when you've only just started kissing makes him one hundred per cent certain you'll fake it later. Tracey explains that there are certain sexual behaviours that are considered to be a complete turn off.
Lying back and taking it.
Lying back and thinking of England isn't just uninspiring, it's patronising. It insinuates that simply allowing him have sex with you is enough of a turn on for him. Going to the loo just before sex and not washing afterwards. This was the pet hate of my best male friend and his now ex girlfriend. In films, scratching your fingernails down his back to show how excited you are looks damn sexy. In reality, it just hurts — and comes across as more than a tad overdramatic.
Trying something new without asking first.
Some sex surprises are great a present of a new vibrator you know she likes, trying out a This teen actually enjoys sex with himself oral sex technique on him. Being too self conscious about your body.
Covering, up, only doing it with the lights off, not letting him look and admire you — none of these behaviours will score you any points at all with any man or woman if you're gay or bisexual!
Yes, we all have our insecurities and 'fat days' but if you're a few months in and he still hasn't actually seen you naked, you're taking things way too far.
Body insecurities don't just impact on his visual enjoyment, they often mean you won't try certain positions and are generally unadventurous in bed. Women are way, way, way more critical about their bodies than their partners are of them.
If he says he finds your body beautiful, he does. Take the compliment and relax. Only liking the missionary position. Women favour missionary for many reasons — some good it's primitive and there's lots of eye contactsome not so good it's the position that hides most of your body and requires the least effort from us. It's hard enough keeping desire high when you're making love to one person for the rest of your life, but impossible when you're forced to do the same This teen actually enjoys sex with himself every single session.
Other mistakes include telling him when to orgasm and acting as if you've done him a huge favour after agreeing to have sex file photo. Telling him when to orgasm.
Begging him to hold off just makes him even more paranoid he'll ejaculate pre-maturely; the resulting anxiety ensures he will. You're much better off letting him climax and then settling in for round two or getting your orgasm through oral sex. Telling him to orgasm now sounds like a turn on but is often interpreted correctly to mean 'Could you hurry up and finish?